Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Solving some of Life's Great Mysteries


Salamu

My Niggas!

I can safely sit before you and say that I have had interesting work experience. I have never been one to blow my own trumpet but when I look at my CV compared with others, I can safely say that I have experienced more than most. 

I have had good jobs and I have had some rank shit jobs. I have had great bosses and I have had some mad crazy bosses. Before we go on, a word of advise. Beware the middle aged woman executive who does not have any kids and devotes her life to work. Mad Crazy with a capital M and C! Give these bitches a very wide berth! TRUST ME!

My current job is interesting. Although technically I am a copy writer that specializes in technology articles I have been told that I need to try my hand at writing motivational articles. 

Although I never realized it at the time, I thought that my superiors were really losing it when they asked me to do this, but then a very good friend reminded me of what i have experienced in my life and I realized that I am more than well equipped for this task. 

Below is my first attempt. I have been told it needs work so its safe for me to share on my blog as it is not the finished item and wont be published anywhere else: 

Every human has been in this situation before. Its years after you have graduated from high school or college and you are a working man or woman.  Although you literally have your whole life ahead of you, you have enough life experience to realize that the image of the world that teachers and lecturers painted for you is far from the reality of what life really is.

A fundamental truth about life is that it has its challenges, and you have been presented with your first one. You can sit back and ask why people were not honest with you about the truths about life. But looking for someone to blame is not going to help you choose the right way to live your life going forward. You have been knocked down, getting up is up to you. Instead of blaming someone for the hand that life has dealt you, look ahead at the infinite possibilities that present themselves to you.

Imagine being stranded in the middle of the ocean. You might feel that you have completely lost orientation and that you are completely lost. But consider the fact that if you are stranded in the middle of the ocean, your possibilities are endless. Either direction you choose to travel will lead you to salvation. Overcoming a challenge in life needs a similar approach. The chances of things getting worse than they are at that moment are far less than the chances of things getting better. And when you eventually approach land after being stranded in the ocean one paddles faster towards salvation. But what if that person approached the problem with the same enthusiasm at the start? Would he/she have not reached salvation sooner?

Once you are back on track, you need to realize that you are fully equipped with all of the tools you need to achieve greatness, there are no missing tools in your tool box. There are many religions in the world, but there are a few common truths. One such truth is that our existence is not a coincidence; we have been created by a higher power to achieve a specific purpose, a specific goal. And whoever created us did so with perfection in mind. Although we don’t realize it, or care to admit it, we will never be as perfect as we are at this particular moment to achieve greatness.

Achieving this greatness cannot be done alone. No human is an island. We need people to push us down the right path when we face crossroads in life. Think back to the life that you have lived and you will recall the role that a family member, high school teacher, best friend or life partner has played in the person that you are today. Open your mind and heart to the role that influential people can play going forward. Base your present decisions on selected past experiences. We have all had our share of break ups or have experienced death, and the pain that you feel at that moment is very real and is enough to make you apprehensive to let other people into your lives. But by allowing hurt to control you, you are building a defensive wall that will prevent you from taking advantage of present opportunities that life has to offer. You might think that the people in your life merely exist by coincidence. But the people in your life, like your existence, do not happen by coincidence. These people have been carefully selected by the higher power that created you and are brought into your life at the precise moment that you need them. You just have to open your mind...and open your heart  to acceptance and fight the urge to keep these people at an arm’s length. Let them into your life and enjoy all that they have to offer.

Live your life to the fullest. Give it all you have. Look into the face of an approaching storm and have the guts to say:  “Do your worst, for I will surely do mine!” Approach each day with the devotion, dedication and discipline to achieve one goal. It may be a singular goal or it may be the first step in achieving a bigger goal, but humans are emotionally wired to be driven by achievement. At times you will succeed and at times you will fail, but the lessons we learn in success and failure helps us to achieve more.

Have you ever taken the time to watch the daily routine of a small child? From the moment they wake up in the morning until they go to sleep at night their sole purpose is to enjoy all that the day has to offer to the fullest. It might seem irrational to say that an adult should approach life in a similar way, but how irrational is it really? Imagine what you can achieve if you take all the lessons you have learned about life and use them at the appropriate time while living each day to achieve the fulfillment in life that a child does.

Now that we have thought about living life with a childlike enthusiasm we realize that we have heard the cliché a hundred times: life is a journey. But are you merely listening to that cliché ? Or do you understand it? I have spoken about some of the fundamental truths about life. But the one truth that governs them all is that we can only learn these truths by living life. And with all of the living and all of the learning, we have just scratched the surface. There are still infinite truths that we have not discussed just as there are many more truths that I have not yet learned. The day we stop learning about life is the day that we die. What you need to realize is that nobody can teach you these truths; it is through living life that we learn how to cope with it. 

Within all us there is a storm, some believe that it will never end. But a person who believes in the heavens can weather any storm.


Till next time my Niggas!

Mei jua daima kuwa kabla yenu, na vivuli nyuma yako!

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